Sunday, July 27, 2008

What It Takes to Be a PR Practitioners?

One of my friend called me last two week to say that he is looking for a new job. He wanted to know what I thought about him entering the world of PR. I laughed, and then I laughed some more. Like many other people, my friend was drawn to PR because, on the surface, it looks like an exciting and easy job. Of course, we know the former to be true sometimes, and the latter to be rarely the case.

PR is an intense and difficult job that can be rewarding and disappointing. It can be exciting, and mind-numbingly boring. PR, more often than not, is misunderstood by people outside of the industry. Increasingly, the lines between PR, marketing and advertising are becoming more blurred, taking the industry into a new direction. In short, once you get below the surface, PR is not what it appears to be from the outside.

To be a PR person, I feel you need to posses a certain skill set that can be broken down into two categories: human skills and professional skills. Human skills include things such as patience and congeniality, while professional skills include the ability to speak publicly and write professionally.

My friend would make a terrible a PR person, and I told him so. He lacks "people skills," and he no longer has the patience required to do sales (his previous job). He also does not handle rejection very well, and his maxim, "I will never kiss [backside] again," certainly won't work in the PR world. I told my friend that he certainly had the professional skills thing down pat but that he lacked some important components on the human side of the equation.

I suggested to look no further than his PR Face2Face series of interviews on his weblog (http://pop-pr.blogspot.com/) to see what some of the PR world's brightest minds have had to say on the subject of what makes a good PR person. I've interspersed quotes from these interviews with my own thoughts.

HUMAN SKILLS:


- Patience: Whether it's waiting to hear back from journalists or producers that you have pitched, or simply understanding that a PR campaign takes time to gain traction and evolve, if you don't have patience, you will never be able to do this job. Now, if we could only get our clients to be so patient!

- Congeniality: Ever met a PR person who comes off like a jerk? I have, and I've noticed that such people don't stay in their jobs too long (unless they work at The White House). If you're not friendly and sociable, why are you in a job that requires you to be so? While we're on the subject, Reuters ran an interesting story this week about business etiquette: http://today.reuters.com/news/newsArticleSearch.aspx?storyID=23944+29-Jun-2005+RTRS&srch=etiquette

- Controlled Aggression: The worst PR people are either too passive or overly aggressive. The middle ground is what I call "controlled aggression," which means you know when to turn on your adrenaline and when to turn it off.

- Critical Thinking: "The most important thing is to think like a journalist." - Ronn Torossian, Founder, President & CEO, 5WPR - Nerves: Be it the nerve to cold-call a reporter on deadline, or the nerve to get up in front of a bank of microphones and disclose bad news, it takes a streak of cold blood to be able to do PR.

- Verbosity and Simplicity: The ability to communicate in grand ways and on simple terms is a must. If you're not comfortable speaking to an audience of white-collar executives as well as to an audience of blue-collar hourly-wage earners, you won't be able to do this job.

- Thirst for Knowledge: The best PR people are people who can put things into context. The ability to take an idea and narrow or broaden it is important when it comes to pitching a story, as well as when it comes to figuring out how to target your story. "If you are not knowledgeable on what is going on today, how do you advise clients or companies on what to do tomorrow?" - Al Golin, Chairman, GolinHarris

- Ethics: "The people have to come to the standard that I value, and draw that ethical line in the sand and never cross it. Be a straight shooter, don't lie. Anyone that is devious in public relations is going to be found out, and will fail." - Howard Rubenstein, President, Rubenstein Associates

PROFESSIONAL SKILLS:

- Writing: You don't have to be a novelist, but if you can't write a decent letter, memo or, most importantly, press release, then you shouldn't be a PR person. Despite the proliferation of email and instant messaging, the ability to communicate via the written word is something lost on many people who have grown up in the electronic age. We've all probably received emails and messages that come off as sarcastic without meaning to be so. There are no shortcuts to writing a professional communication, but more and more I'm seeing press releases and pitches penned by people who appear to have flunked English 101.

- Writing, Part II: "Writing skills are the most difficult thing to find. Once people can write, I feel that pretty much everything else we can teach." - Jeffrey Sharlach, Chairman and CEO, The Jeffrey Group

- Orating: Public speaking is not easy, and it certainly takes most people time to get comfortable in front of a large group of people. Nonetheless, PR people need to be able to articulate their thoughts and their company's story in front of an audience, be it a group of employees or a swarm of media.

- Internet-Enabled: PR takes an immense amount of research, and PR people who don't understand tools such as blogs, search engines and premium search services suffer the consequences. Knowing how to find Google or Technorati is not enough - you need to understand how to utilize these resources as well.

- Multi-Tasking: I don't mean the ability to talk on the phone and play solitaire. If you can't pitch the media, pitch prospective clients, take part in crisis-control initiatives, and help clients formulate a strategy beyond PR, then you're in the wrong game. Specialty PR is fine if you're proven in the field, but a well-rounded PR person can handle everything from sales to client handholding.

The ideal PR person, in my book, is like what baseball scouts call a "five-tool" player: 1) hitting for average, 2) hitting for power, 3) running for speed, 4) arm strength, and 5) fielding ability.

"Five-tool players get the key hits, big home runs, timely stolen bases, they throw out the tying run at the plate and make spectacular defensive plays," Mark Bonavita wrote in The Sporting News back in 1999.

Ask yourself if you're getting the key hits, hitting the big home runs, stealing a timely base, throwing out the runner at the plate, and making spectacular plays in the field. If you're not, it may be time to relearn some PR basics and learn some new tricks. Or, perhaps, think about a new career. I'll be exploring more of "what it takes to be a PR person" in the future columns.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Broken Heart

HAVE YOU EVER FELT HURT? HAVE YOU EVER FELT PAIN? HAVE YOU EVER FELT LOST? HAVE YOU EVER FELT LIKE GIVING UP? HAVE YOU FELT YOUR HEART BREAKING? All of us have had a broken heart...

Broken hearts are never healed. They haunt us for a lifetime even if we find someone else. Our past teaches us lessons that make us more aware and more human. Why then do we feel so hurt knowing it can only get better?

Breaking up with someone you care about is one of the toughest decisions any of us will ever have to go through. Dealing with the pain and heart break is never easy. We just have to live the days as they are set out and not live in the past.

The Wonderful Holiday

Eventhough pass a month already I’m back from Malaysia but I still feel and remembered each of the moment when I was in vacation with my family. WOW, definitely, it is such a WONDERFUL holiday that I’ve never feel before. Unfortunately, one thing I feel sad because my younger sister couldn’t join us because she have to take a short course at Uitm Melaka. If she could follow us, our vacation will be more excitement. Without her feel uncompleted! Do u all wanna know where have I being for almost 3 weeks? I’ve been to UK, Scotland and Istanbul, Turkey. So, here I would like to share my amazing vacation with all of u. erm, okey let’s we start with UK.

In UK, I went to my auntie house at High Wycombe. My auntie has stay in UK about 35 years. She is a good cooker especially western food. Yummy, I love her lasagna, lamb chop, roast chicken, potato salad…it makes me fatty and chubby stay at her house. I spend a lot of my time with my honey bunny and sweetie pie niece, Mia Yasmin, 4 years old. Wuarghh, I really miss this girl so much…I can’t wait to see her again when she coming back to Malaysia next year on January. Hah, I forgot to tell u about the weather there. 1st week there I got a bad cold there. I couldn’t adapt with the weather there. I have to wear socks and sweater in the house. But 5 days before going back to Malaysia the weather getting warm there. Alright, let’s continue where other place I went to. I went shopping to Eden, the new shopping complex at High Wycombe. It’s quite big that shopping complex.






Then, I’ve been to Windsor Castle and also to Marlow which is place to picnic and there also can rent a boat. We also went to Arsenal because my brother really wants to see the Emirates Stadium. I and my brother is a big fan of football team Arsenal. I’m quite shock to see the stadium. Totally, it is different with our stadium in Malaysia. It is very huge the Emirates Stadium. Besides, we went to London twice with trains. In London, we went to Kensington Palace (Lady Diana home) and Oxford Street to shopping. Then, we went to Hyde Park, the largest park in the world. We were having lunch at Malaysian Hall. In the hall, I feel like in Malaysia because majority in there is Malaysian people. That moment also I really feel miss my Malaysian food. I have for the lunch - sambal belacan, ikan kembung, sambal tumis udang, ulam-ulam..Uishh, it’s really delicious!



Okay, next my destination is Istanbul, Turkey. At first our plans to go to the Paris or Barcelona but my cousin who work at Travel Agency suggest to go to the Istanbul, Turkey. Wow! Seriously I told u all, Istanbul is a nice and very beautiful country. No regret goes to Istanbul. If I have another opportunity, definitely, I will go there again! My trip to Istanbul is 4 days and 3 nights. I feel it is not enough stay there. I like the people there because they are very friendly. The weather is quite nice and warm.

How about shopping in Istanbul? Hmm…I’ve shop till drop..hehehe. But my dad be a victim to paid the things I’ve shop. There is one big and famous bazaar in the town which called Grand Bazaar. In the Grand Bazaar have 4000 shops. There are many leather products which from good quality till low quality. I’ve bought a leather handbags, shoe, belt and wallet. Besides, we can see there a lot of ceramic products. I’ve stayed at Carlton Hotel and situated in town. So, easier for me to go shopping because is near to the bazaar and other shops. It takes 15 minute walks to the Grand Bazaar. The other interesting about this country is their historical. I’m quite impressed to see their historical building and things. I went to the Blue Mosque, Topkapi etc. the most interesting place is I went to Bosphorus Cruise. In the cruise I’ll see the blue sea and I also can see the building and the bridge. Besides, it can see the Istanbul side Asian and Istanbul side Europe. The last night at Istanbul we went to see a Belly Dance and Cultural Show. I have such a great time and enjoy see the performance. So, I suggest to all of u who has opportunity u all must go to Istanbul, Turkey because it is a wonderful and amazing country!





After going back from Istanbul, we have a rest for 2 days at my auntie house. Then we continue our journey to Scotland. We went there by auntie cars. Uisshhhh, what the long journey.. It takes about 10 hours to Scotland. We make sandwiches, fried rice, snacks, fruits, and hot drinks.
We feel lucky because along the journey the weather is nice. Besides, we don’t lose because we have Tomb (Maps GPS) that guide us to the destination. We went to the east coast of Scotland where is at Elgin. Along the journey, I could see Scotland have a very nice scene nary. The mountain, the yellow heather, the villages, the river, the sheets, cow etc. It is very beautiful and peaceful. At Elgin, we stayed at my auntie friend house, Auntie Rose and Uncle Tom. We stayed at their house 3 days and 2 nights. The weather at Scotland is very cold. Auntie Rose and Uncle Tom bring us to see the beach and the town of Elgin. It is hard to find a halal food at the town. So, my auntie brings 3 halal chickens from Hwycombe to cook at Auntie Rose house. Beside that, we also went to the Mountain Cairngorm. I could see a nice view when at the upper of the mountain. I see ice on top of the mountain. I’m freezing up there! besides, we went to the Walkers Short Bread Factory. This factory is the only one factory produce the short bread in the world. It uses pure butter in each of their products. We get a discount and cheaper price bought the biscuits, fruit cakes etc at this factory.


I feel sad when the moment in time going back to Malaysia and leaved my auntie, my cousin and my honey bunny, Mia Yasmin. Hmm, that is my story and my experienced I would like to share with all of u. Definitely, I have a great time there. But I really miss Malaysia! Even though we at other country, we will still remember our own country. It is right people said, “Hujan emas di negara org, hujan batu di negeri sendiri”….






































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































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Sunday, July 20, 2008

Yahuu, final semester!

Hah, i just start a new semester last 2 weeks...oh my god, can't believe it! this is my final semester..so fast time past by...unbelievable the time is so quick. that's why people always said time is golden.i've been 3 years for diploma communication & media studies and 2 years bachelor of communication and media studies majoring in public relation. 5 years already i study..while, many things i pass through either happy or sad in this 5 years..means that i succeed faced it. yahuuu, i will finish my study on november..but i feel so lazy and unsatisfied with 3month holiday. so long left the classes..about 7 month...4month in practical training at Tractors Malaysia then 3 month semester break..so, i still blur in the class because the mood is still thinking on holiday...but i also feel sad because i will end my study at Uitm. after this, definitely, i will miss all my friends, lecturers, faculty, classes...wuargggh...i will be miss every moment when i'm studying at Uitm. "Uitm Di Hatiku".....!!!

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Believe it or not...

True Love by Jennifer S. Boney

When I think of my love for you the wonder of its beauty takes my breath away.
I cannot recall the moment in time it began,
but only the overwhelming feeling of ecstasy it brought to me.
For at that moment I knew happiness.
A happiness I had never known before.
For just the thought of you gave me joy beyond belief.
The thought of being with you and being held by you was my one desire
I knew once we first met none other would ever do, for I knew love.
I knew love as I had never thought possible in this life time.
It is a love of passion and desire.
It is a never-ending need to you, for you, only you.
When I think of my love for you
I realize I now know the true meaning of love.
I will love you as long as this life endures and beyond, for you are my dreams, my realities.
You are my heart
You are my meaning of true love.

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE...Do u believe in love? Is it rite sometime love can bring happiness but sometime love is painful? People can't run away from being in love. So, do I...I also gone through many experienced with LOVE. Erm, yah love makes me crazy...Love makes me blind...Love also make me happy and make me sad..Sometime I feel give up and frustrated in find a true and real love. Then, I realize that it is good to get through feel frustrated with love. It is normal for being hurt once in our life. So, to whom that sad, frust because of LOVE don't think deeply and be too sad..Life must go on ok! Maybe the person is not a right one for u....Ada hikmah & pegang pada jodoh tuhan! I hope I will get my true love and the right person to taking care of me and can love me so much...